I realise I have been Forcing people to do what’s right. Most of the times they listen silently & don’t respond. Some reacted with revolt.
Doing right is important. That’s what I learnt while controlling my inner bad. But I didn’t realise till now that the same bad was manifesting in dominating.
I will take this lesson mam. Next time, I’ll lead by example. Not by force.
– Srikanth Rangdal
Holding someone back without their will doesn’t work. Whether it’s a relationship, a project or any other work.
They will be there for sometime. But soon will boomerang or rebel & try to break away from you !
Never ever try to dominate. Don’t ever push anyone. Don’t force them do things in which their hearts don’t agree.
It causes lots of pain to be in such situation. Interest & motivation draw true satisfaction. Isn’t leading always better than dragging?
The more the compulsion, the more is the urge to break away. From that particular person. From that particular situation.
Everyone loves freedom of choice. Specially if it relates to their progress, a healthier relationship, a better choice. Who would not like to go ahead?
Anything for that matter should be accepted wholeheartedly. With love. Only then will it bloom or grow more beautifully. Adding happiness & joy.
Never ever thrust your choices on anyone. Let each one discover for themselves the right & wrong. The truth & false. The logical & illogical. The good & bad.
Freewill is the greatest power given to human. Use it for its bestest progress & development!
READERS PLEASE NOTE:
These inspirational talks belong to Nina mam. My contribution is editing to remove mistakes & add some of my own lines if needed.
Below is how Nina mam describes herself. In her own words:
“I am a proud homemaker, a tarot reader, a singer, an organiser in a musical group & writing is my passion.”
You may find more of her previous talks on her Facebook page:
Listen to her sweet voice here: