Sometimes it takes years and years to come out of guilt, shame or regret of something you may have done in past. You may have done it intentionally or unintentionally. It might have hurt, given pain or may have spoiled your reputation or a relationship. It might have damaged your dignity or integrity of someone else.
How long you are going to punish yourself? How long will you let someone punish you by their behaviour? How long will you remain angry with yourself?
Your time of repentance is over. It’s time to love yourself & let go of the past. You will never be able to change it.
You must learn the lesson it taught you. Accept your mistakes. Never repeat it. Let it go to create more space for love, empathy & wisdom to enter your life.
You’ll create a new you who went through this to understand. You’ll become a better person. When you forgive yourself, you learn to forgive others too. You learn that mistakes sometimes happen unintentionally too. You understand the consequences and circumstances in which the mistakes are made. You are more forgiving. You stop judging people !
You definitely cannot change your past, but definitely can look forward to a better future!
Let us know if you have had such experiences. Sharing will make it easier for you to move on . . .
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“I am a proud home maker, a tarotreader, a singer, an organiser in a musical group & writing is my passion.”
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